Gaining

What would you rather do

Regret getting fat and living out your fantasy?
You can always lose it if you put effort in

Or

Regret never giving into your desires and staying the way you are and always wondering what its like to be fat. Coming on here everyday looking at all gainers and wondering what its like.

How true this is! I really enjoy the thought of getting fat, but I have only put on a few pounds. I still exercise too. When I do binge it is a struggle to really eat until I really full.
One of my fantasies is to either have my SA/spouse want me nice and fat or a serious reason to become fat. Medical, job or the desires of my spouse, family etc.

See "Deciding to Get Fat" on my site. There's a test you can take there that just might provide an answer.

Im very skinny, have a desire to be fat, but yeah I worry about the judgement. My familly are all extremely healthy and would react poorly, my girlfriends not into it, and more than anything it is a HUGE effort for me because i have a ludicrous metabolism. Like almost impossibly fast. I overeat to maintain the 140 pounds i have, and im tall too, like 6.2... I dont think i could go through with it till i have a feeder to spur me on.

This is a BIG if. Some people get so into overeating it's virtually impossible to lose.

that's exactly the feeling and situation i'm living and explain in the topic I opened...I'm not the only one